Posts tagged truth

How can these issues be resolved by extending love to myself?

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Abandonment - I abandon myself in the area of having trouble providing for myself.

Being self-sufficient is how you show yourself love and care. And as you show these things to yourself, as you accept the gift, then you will allow in true love and care - not guilt or obligation based but true - from others.

Remember you are not an island, co-creation comes from inside AND outside. This is the dance of balance which you are now learning to Be. Not just with the Universe - this applies to everyone in your life.

See the obligation energy you exude, the pull for compassion from others…this is a mis-use of compassion, and therefore could never sustain itself, or you.

As you entrain a new habit - the habit of Wellness - and don’t abandon yourself, you will begin to trust in it more and more. In this way the balance will be restored, and love and care from others will be genuine, heart based and True.

When you don’t abandon yourself, you don’t have to worry about being abandoned: This has your greatest fear, since birth. The terror of being alone and lonely comes from being abandoned within AND without.

The difference, one you have never known completely, will be like the difference between a huge Thanksgiving spread and a hungryman tv dinner. Total.

You’ve been borderline starving all your life, feeling abandoned by your home, by God. Prepare to revel in the Truth of what you are and always have been - it’s only been hidden by the fear you clung to, never lost.

Cultivate trust, be on your side always, know that your truth and your perception is YOURS for a reason.

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Rejection - I don’t take care to look nice.

Life is meant to be lived. Action based upon false fear - a fear built by the ego to avoid pain rather than True fear which is an entirely different thing all together - will only serve to entrench that fear and the situation it feeds.

All of these things you already possess… you naturally are much more interested in inward truths than outward expressions, but remember, it’s in the outward expressions where life actually happens.

Be comfortable - you know not to be fake, this you have already learned. Take care to the degree it brings you joy, but do not become attached to the image. It’s just an image.

You are You. Shine forth, stand by your side and See as you Be, all of it. It is enough.

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Pressing Problem - My relationship with my hubby is out of balance due to being unwell

You are already tending to this.

*image of being surrounded by golden light, healing and warm and loving - thick almost like water*

Fireflies Song - surrounded by love hugging me always, all the time

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rO3gg2cVfxg

Allow it to be easy. It is already taking place, relax into this and know it is enough.

“The perfect is the enemy of the good.”

When it comes to balance, there is no such thing as perfect. Perfect, perpetual balance is not alive. REMEMBER this.

(p.s. I went looking for the pictures AFTER the reading - as always, if the reading has pictures in it - and I found the ones below immediately, perfectly as I’d seen them! Freaky ;) )

1. What am I supposed to be doing?

‘quiet your mind’

image of a daisy flower in bloom by itself, out of focus green behind it. Looks like a sun, and the white petals are wide open, almost flat in line with the yellow center.

allow what is to come to come

all is right with the world, you needn’t worry

2. So I’m not supposed to be doing anything in particular?

What is yours to do will become apparent in due time, in perfect time.

You need not feel guilty or like you’ve done something wrong, this is no where near the case.

Just be you.

Quieting your mind will make the transition more comfortable, that is all…

unfolding comes naturally

3. I’m so scared…

We know… that is your mind, wandering into the future, and the discomfort of which we speak.

You will be going through this, you needn’t worry about missing the boat…it’s just how comfortable an experience you make it for yourself that is at issue here.

4. Oh…so what I do is for me?

Right. Exactly. It’s all the same to us.

5. Quieting my mind isn’t the thing I must do?

Not at all, you put that on yourself. However, it is the thing you CAN do to ease the transition.

6. I’ve been so worried…

That’s all you. Entirely. Surface stuff…what runs deep is deeper than can be touched by present levels of conscious awareness. A flower blooms - this is what it does. And you as you are will do the same, in your own way, from inside out.

The flower can spend a great deal of time worrying about it - will it be a flower? What kind? Will it fit in? Will it be a good whatever it is?

Seen from that perspective you can see how silly those thoughts are… they are inconsequential and have no impact on the eventual blooming whatsoever. They are certainly uncomfortable for the bud, however…

This is what you are experiencing. These are your choices. This is your choice. Quieting your mind will ease the transition, that is all.

7. Is there anything else?

Image of an old golden key, a Master key to a house.

Remember…you are NOT a flower.